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What the movie Love & Death Taught Me About Marriage, Infidelity, Sacrifice, and Justice
The 2023 drama Love & Death left me thinking deeply about marriage, sacrifice, infidelity, love, and justice. Beyond the shocking crime story lies a painful reminder of how selfish choices, betrayal, and unresolved pain can destroy lives and families....
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The Realities of Pregnancy Challenges: Stories and Experiences
I met a woman in a hospital who had just had ectopic surgery after being childless for ten years. Her husband had divorced her because she couldn’t give him a baby. Surprisingly, she realized she was pregnant two months after the divorce. The news of the pregnancy brought tears of…...
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Which SONG is setting your mood for the rest of the week?
How is your week going? My week started quite lovely. Everything seemed to be in order. Just a typical Monday pressure, nothing serious. But on Tuesday I thought- you know I think a lot. I believe I spend a lot of time in my head but thank God he controls…...
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SO, YOU’RE SINGLE? Here is to living a single life with PURPOSE
The dictionary defines purpose as the reason for which something is done or created or for which something exists. Deducing from this explanation, as long as you live and you are created by God, you exist for a reason. It’s up to you to figure out your purpose. But, As…...
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“I give you CONTROL over my THOUGHTS!”- Dear GOD
Today, I’m letting go of my thoughts and giving you control over them. See them, analyze them, change them, and use them for your own gratification. Just like that. Honestly, I’m not afraid of what you might find. They are a lot to handle, I know. But I do believe…...
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Grateful spirit: I’m surely thankful for this one thing!
I nearly died my dear! It’s no joke! Do you realize that when you are on the verge of dying everything else doesn’t matter? You don’t even remember the biggest problem that’s been haunting you for years or days…...
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Men should also stand up for men’s empowerment. Don’t you think?
This book discussion sparked some controversial topics like polygamy, rape, domestic abuse and women empowerment. The men amongst us supported the women empowerment initiative but were also concerned about the fact that the men were being left out…...
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6 Principles Every Woman Should Adopt | Becoming a Principles Woman
My dear, I’m hoping you’re settled in for this. The other day I was going through the books sitting on my bookshelves, deciding which ones I’ve purposely ignored for some time were worth my attention now. Then I saw a book by Michelle Mckinney Hammond- Secrets of an Irresistible Woman.…...
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Navigating Your Twenties: Crucial Decisions Every Woman Must Make
Now, let me just say- the twenties are the most crucial stage in a person’s life because that’s the stage you have to make major decisions in your life that will drive the rest of your years on earth. You will have to make decisions like ‘Which career path is…...
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The 5 Ps of Bible Study by Priscilla Shirer: A Simple Guide to Studying God’s Word
If you want to hear God's voice, hear him give you directions for your life, grow spiritually in the Lord, have a divine relationship with God, communicate with the Holy Spirit, and dissect the word of God to derive meaning and gain understanding then these principles below are going help…...
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FIRST OUTREACH- WOMAN + ELEGANCE + GOD
My life took a difficult turn at the beginning of this year (January 2023). I did not understand what was going on, and I didn’t want to accept the new life I’d been medically ushered into. I turned to God in prayer for an answer to my “Oh why God?…...
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