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 I’m Paulina Bonsu Donkoh, a Ghanaian lifestyle blogger, business woman, a wife, a proud mom, and a passionate storyteller navigating the beautiful chaos of life, love, and purpose. 
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God Life. Real Life. Mom Life = Real Growth
A flat lay of five must-have items for first-time moms on a clean white blanket: electric breast pump, baby bottle warmer, nursing bra, lactation granola bar, and a folded co-sleeper bassinet. Include a sprig of eucalyptus or soft flowers for warmth. Shot in bright, natural daylight with soft shadows. Realistic, high-resolution image.

5 Must-Haves for First-Time Moms: Essentials You’ll Wish You Had Sooner

14 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
I've listed these five must-haves for first-time mothers from a place of love and experience, for I'm a first-time mom too. Not having them will make your postpartum experience extra hard, especially for the first month after birth.  Becoming a mom for the first time is a beautiful, life-changing experience. But I have to be honest, it also comes with a steep learning curve. The moment you think you've got it figured out, you get kicked in the core with something new. If you're wondering what y...
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From Living in Kumasi Market Store to Nursing Training: A Testimony of God’s Faithfulness

11 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
From sleeping in a Kumasi market store to living in a fully furnished apartment—this is a powerful testimony of what happens when faith refuses to give up...
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Black Women Intentional Living: Soft Summer, Strong Faith at Home

10 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
This summer, Black women are choosing intentional living, embracing rest, faith, and softness without guilt. Here's how you can too....
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The Spiritual Meaning of Motherhood: A Christian Perspective

4 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Motherhood changed me in ways I never expected — not just physically, but spiritually. This is what God is teaching me about identity, purpose, and grace....
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How God Healed My Heart After Losing Someone I Loved

28 June 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
After losing someone she loved deeply, Daisy’s world fell apart. But in the middle of heartbreak, she discovered something greater: a deeper walk with God....
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Too Late for Dreams? How She Found Courage When Her Father Said No

19 June 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
At 27, Tessa was told by her own father that it was too late to dream again. But her faith in God opened doors no one expected....
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I Put God to the Test: A Lecturer’s Story of Faith.

11 June 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Can you really put God to the test? Comfort Bonsu Oduro did—and what followed was nothing short of divine. From marriage at 28 to childbirth at 30 and a dream job, her story is a bold testament to faith, prayer, and God’s perfect timing. You’ll be inspired!...
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How to Balance Faith, Family, and Personal Goals: A Christian Woman’s Guide

24 May 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
As Christian women, we juggle so much—faith, family, dreams, and endless responsibilities. Some days feel like chaos, other days like grace. But through it all, God’s presence keeps us grounded. This post is for every woman trying to balance it all without losing her spiritual fire....
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7 Gospel Celebrities Who Inspire Us as Mothers

17 May 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
They’ve faced silent struggles, public pressure, and painful delays—but these gospel celebrities who are mothers continue to rise with grace. Their stories remind us that motherhood isn’t a detour from purpose, but a sacred path where faith deepens, love grows, and strength is born....
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Why Love Languages Matter (And How Yours Might Be Changing Without You Knowing)

9 May 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Ever felt like you're giving your all in love, but it's not being received the way you intended?* It might be because you're speaking a different love language. In my latest post, I dive into why love languages matter now more than ever, how they can change over time, and what they look like in real-life relationships, especially when juggling marriage, motherhood, and personal growth. Learn the signs, discover your own love language, and explore how understanding it can strengthen the way you give and receive love....
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