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 I’m Paulina Bonsu Donkoh, a Ghanaian lifestyle blogger, business woman, a wife, a proud mom, and a passionate storyteller navigating the beautiful chaos of life, love, and purpose. 
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A working woman sleeping while at work. procrastination at play.

You’re Not Lazy: Learn the Science Behind Procrastination and How to Stop It

16 September 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Procrastination doesn’t mean you’re lazy — it’s how your brain responds to stress and discomfort. Science shows that fear, dopamine, and your brain’s wiring play a role in why we delay tasks. The good news? You can break the cycle. Discover simple, science-backed strategies to overcome procrastination, boost productivity, and finally achieve the goals that matter most to you....
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Growth vs Fixed Mindset: How to Break Comfort Zones and Do Hard Things

13 September 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Do you know your mindset shapes how you grow? The way you see challenges, whether through a growth vs fixed mindset, can determine how far you go in life. In this post, discover why breaking out of comfort zones and doing hard things is the key to resilience, confidence, and lasting success....
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The War of Beauty: How to Embrace Inner and Outer Beauty Without Comparison

4 September 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Beauty, they say, lies in the eye of the beholder. But what happens when you stop comparing yourself to others and embrace your own unique beauty? Discover the true meaning of beauty. Learn how to embrace inner and outer beauty, stop comparisons, and love yourself just as you are....
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Daily Habits for Success: Building a Life That Truly Thrives

22 August 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Build a life that matters with daily habits for success. Explore practical routines and a faith-centered perspective to stay consistent and inspired. You must read this!...
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What Today’s Man Really Wants — and How to Be Her”

14 August 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
In a world full of mixed messages, understanding what today’s man really wants goes beyond surface attraction. It’s about character, emotional connection, and the subtle traits that build trust, inspire respect, and spark lasting love....
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She Had an Affair — and It Nearly Ended It All

8 August 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
It was supposed to be a joyful family trip to Kumasi. But one unexpected message shattered the moment — and changed everything....
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Elegant Outfits: Timeless Looks That Blend Style and Confidence

29 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Timeless, classy, and stylish: this guide explores elegant outfits that make a statement without saying a word. A must-read for effortless style lovers....
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A photogrid of three Ghana Gospel musicians: Joe Mettle, Efe Grace, and Piesie Esther.

Top Ghana Gospel Songs in 2025: What’s Trending and Touching Hearts.

27 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
What’s that one gospel song everyone in Ghana is playing right now? From worship to fire-filled praise, these 2025 tracks are making waves, and one in particular is leading the pack. Find out which songs made the list and why they’re touching hearts across the nation....
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Moses Bliss and his wife, Marie Bliss, pose joyfully indoors in matching navy blue traditional attire, holding their newborn son dressed in similar clothing.

Inside Moses Bliss’ Wedding to Marie Wiseborn Bliss: A Love Story That Captivated Africa

21 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Gospel singer Moses Bliss and wife Marie Wiseborn’s wedding stole hearts across Africa—now they’ve welcomed a beautiful baby! See inside their love story....
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Smiling African American woman in a cream sweater sitting in a cozy living room — Christian wife reflecting on love and marriage.

Things I’ve Learned About Love Since Becoming a Wife

18 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Becoming a wife opened my eyes to a deeper kind of love—one built on grace, service, and daily choices. In this post, I share the heartfelt lessons I’ve learned about love since marriage, all rooted in my walk with God....
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