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 I’m Paulina Bonsu Donkoh, a Ghanaian lifestyle blogger, business woman, a wife, a proud mom, and a passionate storyteller navigating the beautiful chaos of life, love, and purpose. 
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How to Balance Faith, Family, and Personal Goals: A Christian Woman’s Guide

24 May 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
As Christian women, we juggle so much—faith, family, dreams, and endless responsibilities. Some days feel like chaos, other days like grace. But through it all, God’s presence keeps us grounded. This post is for every woman trying to balance it all without losing her spiritual fire....
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7 Gospel Celebrities Who Inspire Us as Mothers

17 May 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
They’ve faced silent struggles, public pressure, and painful delays—but these gospel celebrities who are mothers continue to rise with grace. Their stories remind us that motherhood isn’t a detour from purpose, but a sacred path where faith deepens, love grows, and strength is born....
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Why Love Languages Matter (And How Yours Might Be Changing Without You Knowing)

9 May 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
💞 *Ever felt like you're giving your all in love, but it's not being received the way you intended?* It might be because you're speaking a different love language. In my latest post, I dive into why love languages matter now more than ever, how they can change over time, and what they look like in real-life relationships, especially when juggling marriage, motherhood, and personal growth. 🌟 Learn the signs, discover your own love language, and explore how understanding it can strengthen the way you give and receive love. Click to read. #LoveLanguages #RelationshipGoals #SelfAwareness #MarriageTips #GaryChapman...
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Diana Hamilton: The Voice, The Ministry, The Impact.

3 May 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Diana Hamilton! A name that stands out when the crowd shouts, Powerful! and God-ordained ministry! She is intense and fierce. I have never seen a Ghanaian woman of God like her, who is strong in character and filled with the utmost desire to reveal God poetically yet understandably in the lyrics of her song....
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Faith & Frustration: Navigating Spiritual Dry Seasons with Grace

26 April 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Feeling distant from God? Here's my honest journey as a Ghanaian woman navigating a spiritual dry season, and how I’m slowly finding grace in it....
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7 Things No One Tells You About Pregnancy (From a First-Time Mom)

19 April 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Pregnancy is more than bump photos and baby kicks. Here’s the honest truth about what really happens — physically, emotionally, and spiritually — during those 9 wild months....
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Why You’re Not Reaching Your Goals- 3 Hard Truths You Need to Hear

12 April 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Goals, the desired achievements that give the ‘determined’ meaningful sleepless nights, and the ‘hard worker’ a fruitful result. Have you ever set big goals, felt motivated for a while, but then months later… nothing changed? Have you? Well, I have. On many occasions, I have sat down, picked up a pen and paper, and written down ten things I wanted to achieve, but never crossed more than three of those items on my list. The feeling was unpleasant. It felt like I had given up on my life. So, I would picked up my equipments and create a list again, and it goes on and on. It became a routine, till I wanted to break that cycle. I wanted to stay highly motivated and succeed by completing every goal on my checklist....
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Polyamorous Relationship: Can It Truly Be Fulfilling?

5 April 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Today, polyamory has become the new relationship trend worldwide. Current trends reveal that marriage or monogamy could be an old-fashioned concept for the next generation. People in this kind of relationship are aware of how many people are involved and have given their consent to be polyamorous. In a polyamorous relationship, sometimes one relationship can be prioritized over another and other times, they can be equal. Polyamorous people say it is not possible to get everything you want from one person and that is partly the reason for people to engage in such relationships. Observing all activities involved in a polyamorous relationship, one might ask; is this relationship the key to having a fruitful relationship?...
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6 Powerful Ways To Protect Yourself Against Bad Energy.

29 March 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Today is a purposeful day. Do you know why? It's because today is the day you rid yourself of all toxicity, negativity, and pessimism that prevent you from living life to the fullest. Your life is precious and priceless, that is why you need to be in an environment or amongst people who do not emit bad energy. A popular American motivational speaker, Les Brown once said, “Don’t waste another minute dealing with a toxic, negative, energy-draining person. Some people are wired for negativity. They love being argumentative, combative, and abusive. Run for your life as quickly as possible.” We have to admit it; we all give off bad energy in one way or another. It's just that some of us are eager to rid of such bad energy and work on ourselves to prevent influencing others with that spirit-draining vibe. Most importantly, if you are ridding yourself of bad energy, you have to guard yourself…...
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4 SOLID REASONS WHY YOU CAN’T TRUST YOURSELF.

22 March 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
You can't trust yourself! You can surprise yourself Do you remember that day when something unexpected happened to you? And the only thing you could remember was, “Why did I do this?” Yes! That incident was catastrophic, unprecedented, and surprising. But what left you in awe was your attitude. Your reaction to that problem amazed you. You couldn’t believe you could do something that bad or grievous. Sadly, you did it anyway. I bet you’ve heard people speak on social media- with the least opportunity they get- on why it is reasonable to question everything around you (Your beliefs, dreams, opinions, actions, etc.) to make sure that they are ideal. If you haven’t heard anything of that sort, you’ve heard it today....
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