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What the movie Love & Death Taught Me About Marriage, Infidelity, Sacrifice, and Justice
The 2023 drama Love & Death left me thinking deeply about marriage, sacrifice, infidelity, love, and justice. Beyond the shocking crime story lies a painful reminder of how selfish choices, betrayal, and unresolved pain can destroy lives and families....
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FIRST OUTREACH- WOMAN + ELEGANCE + GOD
My life took a difficult turn at the beginning of this year (January 2023). I did not understand what was going on, and I didn’t want to accept the new life I’d been medically ushered into. I turned to God in prayer for an answer to my “Oh why God?…...
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How to Set Relationship Goals Before Marriage: A Guide Rooted in Faith and Wisdom
Before meeting my husband, I had made a firm decision in my heart and mind that any man I entered into a relationship with would ultimately become my husband. Remarkably, that exact scenario unfolded in my life. It was a goal I had set for my relationships, and it came…...
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LITTLE THINGS TO DO FOR YOUR HUSBAND
I began discovering little things that I could incorporate into my daily routine to demonstrate my love and respect for my husband's leadership in our home. These seemingly insignificant acts held great significance for him, making him feel loved, valued, and appreciated....
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WOMAN, WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH YOUR TIME?
This transformative journey serves as a testimony to the power of managing one's time wisely. As women, we must recognize the fleeting nature of time and refrain from wasting it on endeavors that offer no positive value....
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WHAT IS THE BEST SEX ADVICE YOUR PARENT GAVE YOU?
“A woman cannot be friends with a guy.” But, At age nine I was already watching movies that contained sex scenes. My elder sister and I shared one room and we had television in our room....
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THE BEST ADVICE I’VE EVER RECEIVED IN MARRIAGE- UNCLE EBO WHYTE
About two months to my wedding, I began to develop cold feet. I was tormented by one thought: what if I was making a mistake?...
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DO MEN HAVE THE RIGHT TO CRITICIZE WHAT WOMEN WEAR? (KEKE PALMER’S CASE)
Dear reader, let me ask you: In the times when women are at war with the structure of our society, and men, where traditional roles are being challenged, and where women are striving for gender equality in the family, marriage, and workplace, do you think that men have the right…...
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HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE YOU TO EMOTIONALLY RECOVER FROM A SETBACK?
Now, take a moment and brood over this question: How long does it take you to recover emotionally from a setback? Sometimes, you can’t blame it all on yourself. Looking at the damages done, starting up again, and dealing with the pain make it difficult to get over your emotions…...
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10 GOOD HABITS TO ADOPT NOW!
who you are or the characteristics you portray are a result of the things you have repetitively done, all combined to form your personality. What ‘good habit’ is particularly challenging for you?...
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EVER THOUGHT OF REACHING OUT TO A ‘LOST FRIEND’?
The present-day is rough. There is so much that the world is going through right now; war, hunger, crime, disease outbreak, etc. The last thing on our minds is thinking about somebody else. With how the world is going now, “every man for himself and God for us all.”...
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