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Serwaa Amihere: A Reminder That Women Can Have More Than One Dream

29 October 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
When I saw the photos and videos of Serwaa Amihere in her black robe and white collar, smiling proudly as she was called to the Ghana Bar, I couldn’t help but pause and smile too. It wasn’t just because she looked elegant and fulfilled; it was because of what her journey represents for so many women watching from afar. In a stunning transition from media to law, Serwaa’s story is one of quiet determination, vision, and courage to evolve. It’s proof that we are never limited to one dream, one title, or one version of ourselves. We can be both soft and strong, bold and graceful, and successful in different seasons of life. Serwaa Amihere: The Power of Reinvention In a world that often tries to box women into “one thing,” seeing someone like Serwaa Amihere step into an entirely new field is refreshing. For years, she has been known…...
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What Today’s Man Really Wants — and How to Be Her”

14 August 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
In a world full of mixed messages, understanding what today’s man really wants goes beyond surface attraction. It’s about character, emotional connection, and the subtle traits that build trust, inspire respect, and spark lasting love....
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She Had an Affair — and It Nearly Ended It All

8 August 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
It was supposed to be a joyful family trip to Kumasi. But one unexpected message shattered the moment — and changed everything....
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Elegant Outfits: Timeless Looks That Blend Style and Confidence

29 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Timeless, classy, and stylish: this guide explores elegant outfits that make a statement without saying a word. A must-read for effortless style lovers....
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A photogrid of three Ghana Gospel musicians: Joe Mettle, Efe Grace, and Piesie Esther.

Top Ghana Gospel Songs in 2025: What’s Trending and Touching Hearts.

27 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
What’s that one gospel song everyone in Ghana is playing right now? From worship to fire-filled praise, these 2025 tracks are making waves, and one in particular is leading the pack. Find out which songs made the list and why they’re touching hearts across the nation....
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Moses Bliss and his wife, Marie Bliss, pose joyfully indoors in matching navy blue traditional attire, holding their newborn son dressed in similar clothing.

Inside Moses Bliss’ Wedding to Marie Wiseborn Bliss: A Love Story That Captivated Africa

21 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Gospel singer Moses Bliss and wife Marie Wiseborn’s wedding stole hearts across Africa—now they’ve welcomed a beautiful baby! See inside their love story....
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Things I’ve Learned About Love Since Becoming a Wife

18 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Becoming a wife opened my eyes to a deeper kind of love—one built on grace, service, and daily choices. In this post, I share the heartfelt lessons I’ve learned about love since marriage, all rooted in my walk with God....
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A flat lay of five must-have items for first-time moms on a clean white blanket: electric breast pump, baby bottle warmer, nursing bra, lactation granola bar, and a folded co-sleeper bassinet. Include a sprig of eucalyptus or soft flowers for warmth. Shot in bright, natural daylight with soft shadows. Realistic, high-resolution image.

5 Must-Haves for First-Time Moms: Essentials You’ll Wish You Had Sooner

14 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
I've listed these five must-haves for first-time mothers from a place of love and experience, for I'm a first-time mom too. Not having them will make your postpartum experience extra hard, especially for the first month after birth.  Becoming a mom for the first time is a beautiful, life-changing experience.…...
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From Living in Kumasi Market Store to Nursing Training: A Testimony of God’s Faithfulness

11 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
From sleeping in a Kumasi market store to living in a fully furnished apartment—this is a powerful testimony of what happens when faith refuses to give up...
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Black Women Intentional Living: Soft Summer, Strong Faith at Home

10 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
This summer, Black women are choosing intentional living, embracing rest, faith, and softness without guilt. Here's how you can too....
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The Spiritual Meaning of Motherhood: A Christian Perspective

4 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Motherhood changed me in ways I never expected — not just physically, but spiritually. This is what God is teaching me about identity, purpose, and grace....
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