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 I’m Paulina Bonsu Donkoh, a Ghanaian lifestyle blogger, business woman, a wife, a proud mom, and a passionate storyteller navigating the beautiful chaos of life, love, and purpose. 
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A flat lay of five must-have items for first-time moms on a clean white blanket: electric breast pump, baby bottle warmer, nursing bra, lactation granola bar, and a folded co-sleeper bassinet. Include a sprig of eucalyptus or soft flowers for warmth. Shot in bright, natural daylight with soft shadows. Realistic, high-resolution image.

5 Must-Haves for First-Time Moms: Essentials You’ll Wish You Had Sooner

14 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
I've listed these five must-haves for first-time mothers from a place of love and experience, for I'm a first-time mom too. Not having them will make your postpartum experience extra hard, especially for the first month after birth.  Becoming a mom for the first time is a beautiful, life-changing experience. But I have to be honest, it also comes with a steep learning curve. The moment you think you've got it figured out, you get kicked in the core with something new. If you're wondering what y...
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DO MEN HAVE THE RIGHT TO CRITICIZE WHAT WOMEN WEAR? (KEKE PALMER’S CASE)

27 July 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Dear reader, let me ask you: In the times when women are at war with the structure of our society, and men, where traditional roles are being challenged, and where women are striving for gender equality in the family, marriage, and workplace, do you think that men have the right…...
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HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE YOU TO EMOTIONALLY RECOVER FROM A SETBACK?

21 July 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Now, take a moment and brood over this question: How long does it take you to recover emotionally from a setback?...
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 10 GOOD HABITS TO ADOPT NOW!

10 July 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
What ‘good habit’ is particularly challenging for you?...
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EVER THOUGHT OF REACHING OUT TO A ‘LOST FRIEND’?

29 June 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
With how the world is going now, “every man for himself and God for us all.”...
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“THIS IS WHY I’M TWICE DIVORCED AND SINGLE”

25 June 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
“There’s no love in the world anymore.” That’s what a friend told me. Now, “it’s all about using your head and not your heart.”...
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4 Things You Must Do After a Break-Up

23 June 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
After a breakup, what do you do?...
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I ASKED 5 MEN: WHY DO SOME MEN ABUSE WOMEN?

21 June 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Why do you think some men abuse women?...
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“IT’S A SENSE OF FREEDOM; ITS AN ACT”- MODEL ADELINE

19 June 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
“trying to convince African parents that you’re not doing pornography.”...
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MY SISTER’S 10 GUIDES FOR A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

16 June 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
What is that one ‘thing’ that has kept your relationship/marriage going?...
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A HUSBAND THREATENS WIFE WITH HER NAKED PICTURE

14 June 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
what will you do if your partner threatened to post your naked picture on social media?...
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