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Why Positive Affirmations Can Backfire, According to Dr. Shadé Zahrai

29 May 2026 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Many people turn to positive affirmations to improve confidence, self-worth, and self-acceptance. But what if they aren't working for you? This article explores insights from Dr. Shadé Zahrai on why positive affirmations can sometimes backfire and offers a practical, research-backed alternative that feels more authentic and effective....
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10 Truths About Life That Will Change How You See Everything

6 April 2026 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Some life lessons don’t come with warning signs—they come with experience. These 10 truths about life will challenge how you think, love, grow, and protect your peace....
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Feeling Lost in Life? Why It’s Normal (And What to Do Next)

20 March 2026 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
If you feel lost in life and unsure about your next step, you’re not alone. This honest reflection will help you understand why clarity comes after action and how to start anyway....
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What Happens When a Man Lacks Self-Discipline

19 February 2026 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
When a man lacks self discipline, the consequences rarely show up overnight. They build slowly and affect his relationships, leadership, and future....
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What Is Personal Growth? Meaning, Examples, and Why It Matters

12 January 2026 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
What is personal growth, really? This reflective guide explores the meaning of personal growth, real-life examples, and why intentional self-development leads to clarity, purpose, and a more aligned life....
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Serwaa Amihere: A Reminder That Women Can Have More Than One Dream

29 October 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
When I saw the photos and videos of Serwaa Amihere in her black robe and white collar, smiling proudly as she was called to the Ghana Bar, I couldn’t help but pause and smile too. It wasn’t just because she looked elegant and fulfilled; it was because of what her…...
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3 Successful Habits I Developed in Two Weeks: Now CEO of Dalak Publishing Services

17 October 2025 by Godfred Deemacdan Buafor
In just two weeks, I transformed my life by building three powerful habits — reading, seeking principles, and finding mentors. These habits shaped my path from an ordinary Ghanaian youth to CEO of Dalak Publishing Services....
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How do you win the war in your mind and pull yourself together to succeed?

15 March 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
There’s a war we are always waging in our minds, a battle we're constantly failing to win. This battle drains our energy and willpower to succeed, eventually leading us to admit defeat. This war is so familiar to us. It haunts us in our sleep and when we are awake.…...
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