I still recall the valuable advice my mother imparted to me before I entered into marriage: “Treat your husband like a king.” At the time, my initial reaction was that I also deserved to be treated like a queen. I was weary of hearing advice solely focused on my husband’s happiness. It wasn’t that I didn’t desire his well-being or want to treat him with kindness; it was just that I felt my own happiness was excluded from the equation.
However, as time passed and I grew closer to God, delving into Christian literature, I began to comprehend my role and purpose as a wife. I came to recognize the profound power bestowed upon me as a wife and the rationale for treating my husband as a king. In turn, I too would be treated as a queen. Making my husband’s well-being a priority and prioritizing his needs above everything else became my guiding principle. The rewards of this approach were immense.
I began discovering little things that I could incorporate into my daily routine to demonstrate my love and respect for my husband’s leadership in our home. These seemingly insignificant acts held great significance for him, making him feel loved, valued, and appreciated.
He noticed and acknowledged each and every thing I did for him.
I wanted to share these practices with you so that together we can strive to strengthen our marriages and create a joyful and harmonious home.
These are five little things you can do for your husband
Write something nice on a sticky note: Writing heartfelt messages on sticky notes can be a wonderful way to express your love and appreciation to your husband. Before my husband and I got married, I used to convey my thoughts through text messages after we had disagreements. Back then, I felt that words were not enough during our phone conversations, so I would send him a text to express my true feelings. He appreciated this gesture, and it brought us closer.
I no longer engage in this practice after arguments because it’s still important to ensure that our conversations are open and honest right when it’s ongoing. However, I have found a new way to sprinkle positivity in our lives. Every now and then, I send him an inspiring quote or a heartfelt message from me, conveyed through sticky notes. I strategically place them where he can easily see them, whether it’s on his laptop screen, the fridge, or the wall.
Consider surprising your husband with some beautiful words on a sticky note when he returns home from work. It’s a heartfelt gesture that can brighten his day. Remember, while the written word is powerful, don’t underestimate the impact of expressing your love verbally. Combine these lovely notes with sincere spoken words to truly convey how much he means to you.
Pray for him: A Powerful Practice for Blessing Your Husband
One of the beautiful ways to support and uplift your husband is through the power of prayer. Inspired by my own mother, I have developed a routine of praying for my husband during my quiet time and also physically connecting with him before he leaves the house. I have witnessed the positive impact it has had on our relationship and his endeavors.
My mother would always pray for my sister, my father, and me whenever we ventured outside our home. After her heartfelt prayer, she would gently make the sign of the cross on our foreheads, symbolizing God’s favor and protection following us wherever we went.
You, too, can adopt a similar practice or establish your own prayer routine for your husband. Prior to his departure, take a moment to hold his hands, touch his shoulders, or embrace him with a loving hug. As you do so, speak blessings and declare success over his endeavors. Let the words you utter be saturated with faith, encouragement, and belief in his abilities.
At first, your actions might catch your husband off guard or make him feel a bit uncomfortable if he has never experienced it before. However, with time, he will come to appreciate and cherish the intentional prayers and support you offer. Especially when he begins to witness the positive outcomes and favor that accompany your prayers.
Remember, through prayer, you have the ability to speak life and positivity into your husband’s journey. With each prayer, you are setting the stage for God’s guidance and blessings to manifest in his life. So, let your heart be filled with love and your words be filled with faith as you intercede on behalf of your husband.
Preparing His Favorite Meal
If you find yourself in a situation where your husband’s favorite food is challenging to prepare, it can be a special treat to surprise him with it once in a while. Taking a day off from your busy schedule to prepare his beloved dish can bring joy to both of you.
To make this occasion even more memorable, consider finding additional ingredients that can elevate the taste and presentation of the meal. You can go the extra mile by decorating the dining table with flickering candles and beautiful flowers. Dressing up in a nice outfit will add a touch of elegance to create a wonderful and intimate atmosphere for both you and your husband.
Commit to Supporting Your Husband: A Key Element for a Strong Marriage
To create a truly loving and fulfilling marriage, it’s important to consistently demonstrate your love and support for your husband, rather than just occasionally doing something special. Embracing the role of a devoted helper, as desired by God, can greatly enhance your relationship. Make a heartfelt decision to be there for your husband in any way he needs, without expecting something in return.
It’s natural to have moments of self-doubt, questioning if your own needs will be met in the process. However, let’s not forget the purpose for which wives were created: to support and assist their husbands. Redirect your energy towards helping your husband achieve his tasks, goals, and responsibilities. Start by asking him how you can be of assistance, whether it’s completing certain tasks, helping him achieve specific goals, or supporting his responsibilities.
While you may anticipate that his requests will be time-consuming or burdensome, they could be as simple as fixing a button on his shirt or aiding him in finding a misplaced file. Make it your mission to be available for your husband’s needs. This is undoubtedly challenging, but you can seek strength and determination through prayer, asking God to empower you to fulfill your intended role as a helper.
Improve Your Appearance
Just as you take the time to dress nicely when going out or prepare your home when receiving visitors, it’s important to do the same for your husband. Be sure to freshen up, style your hair, and put on a pleasant outfit before your husband returns from work. A touch of perfume can also add to the overall effect.
By presenting yourself beautifully, you’ll allow your husband to appreciate the care and effort you put into your appearance. If you have children, it can also be helpful to tidy up their toys, give them a bath, and get them ready to greet their father before bedtime.
Doing these five little things for your husband will bring so much joy to your home. You will notice that unnecessary arguments are quickly fading out of your conversations, and your home will breed the peace and comfort you’ve always desired.
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