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How to Deepen Your Spiritual Life in Busy Seasons

22 September 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Do you ever feel like your spiritual life is slipping away because of how busy life gets? Between work, family, and endless deadlines, it’s easy to end the day realizing you didn’t pray or open your Bible. But here’s the good news: busyness doesn’t cancel your spiritual life. You can invite God into your everyday routines—whether it’s whispering a prayer before emails, listening to Scripture while commuting, or worshipping while folding laundry. Your relationship with God isn’t about perfect routines; it’s about living with Him in every moment....
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Black Women Intentional Living: Soft Summer, Strong Faith at Home

10 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
This summer, Black women are choosing intentional living, embracing rest, faith, and softness without guilt. Here's how you can too....
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Faith & Frustration: Navigating Spiritual Dry Seasons with Grace

26 April 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Feeling distant from God? Here's my honest journey as a Ghanaian woman navigating a spiritual dry season, and how I’m slowly finding grace in it....
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“I give you CONTROL over my THOUGHTS!”- Dear GOD

10 July 2024 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Today, I’m letting go of my thoughts and giving you control over them. See them, analyze them, change them, and use them for your own gratification. Just like that. Honestly, I’m not afraid of what you might find. They are a lot to handle, I know. But I do believe…...
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Grateful spirit: I’m surely thankful for this one thing!

6 July 2024 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
I nearly died my dear! It’s no joke! Do you realize that when you are on the verge of dying everything else doesn’t matter? You don’t even remember the biggest problem that’s been haunting you for years or days…...
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The 5 Ps of Bible Study by Priscilla Shirer: A Simple Guide to Studying God’s Word

30 November 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
If you want to hear God's voice, hear him give you directions for your life, grow spiritually in the Lord, have a divine relationship with God, communicate with the Holy Spirit, and dissect the word of God to derive meaning and gain understanding then these principles below are going help…...
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