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 I’m Paulina Bonsu Donkoh, a Ghanaian lifestyle blogger, business woman, a wife, a proud mom, and a passionate storyteller navigating the beautiful chaos of life, love, and purpose. 
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Things I’ve Learned About Love Since Becoming a Wife

18 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Becoming a wife opened my eyes to a deeper kind of love—one built on grace, service, and daily choices. In this post, I share the heartfelt lessons I’ve learned about love since marriage, all rooted in my walk with God....
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EVER THOUGHT OF REACHING OUT TO A ‘LOST FRIEND’?

29 June 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
The present-day is rough. There is so much that the world is going through right now; war, hunger, crime, disease outbreak, etc. The last thing on our minds is thinking about somebody else. With how the world is going now, “every man for himself and God for us all.”...
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“THIS IS WHY I’M TWICE DIVORCED AND SINGLE”

25 June 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
“There’s no love in the world anymore.” That’s what a friend told me. Now, “it’s all about using your head and not your heart.”...
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4 Things You Must Do After a Break-Up

23 June 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Every relationship is tough in various ways but sometimes you can’t complain. Why? Because it’s better to break free from a highly toxic relationship than to deceive yourself that it’s going to get better someday. You might eventually lose your sanity if you keep up with that relationship. After a…...
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I ASKED 5 MEN: WHY DO SOME MEN ABUSE WOMEN?

21 June 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
one domestic violence story can make you hate every man in this world. Why do you think some men abuse women?...
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“IT’S A SENSE OF FREEDOM; ITS AN ACT”- MODEL ADELINE

19 June 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
The general perception is that modeling has now become a form “of prostitution for some girls.” When she shows skin......
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MY SISTER’S 10 GUIDES FOR A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

16 June 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
What is that one ‘thing’ that has kept your relationship/marriage going?...
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A HUSBAND THREATENS WIFE WITH HER NAKED PICTURE

14 June 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
what will you do if your partner threatened to post your naked picture on social media?...
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4 LESSONS FROM BILLIE CONNELLY IN ‘SEX/LIFE’ ABOUT MARRIAGE

11 June 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
It is believed that the more sexual explorations you have with yourself and toys, the more you understand what your body needs to feel good....
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