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 I’m Paulina Bonsu Donkoh, a Ghanaian lifestyle blogger, business woman, a wife, a proud mom, and a passionate storyteller navigating the beautiful chaos of life, love, and purpose. 
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Things I’ve Learned About Love Since Becoming a Wife

18 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Becoming a wife opened my eyes to a deeper kind of love—one built on grace, service, and daily choices. In this post, I share the heartfelt lessons I’ve learned about love since marriage, all rooted in my walk with God....
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Why Love Languages Matter (And How Yours Might Be Changing Without You Knowing)

9 May 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Ever felt like you're giving your all in love, but it's not being received the way you intended?* It might be because you're speaking a different love language. In my latest post, I dive into why love languages matter now more than ever, how they can change over time, and…...
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Polyamorous Relationship: Can It Truly Be Fulfilling?

5 April 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Today, polyamory has become the new relationship trend worldwide. Current trends reveal that marriage or monogamy could be an old-fashioned concept for the next generation. People in this kind of relationship are aware of how many people are involved and have given their consent to be polyamorous. In a polyamorous…...
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SO, YOU’RE SINGLE? Here is to living a single life with PURPOSE

17 July 2024 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
The dictionary defines purpose as the reason for which something is done or created or for which something exists. Deducing from this explanation, as long as you live and you are created by God, you exist for a reason. It’s up to you to figure out your purpose. But, As…...
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6 Principles Every Woman Should Adopt | Becoming a Principles Woman

28 June 2024 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
My dear, I’m hoping you’re settled in for this. The other day I was going through the books sitting on my bookshelves, deciding which ones I’ve purposely ignored for some time were worth my attention now. Then I saw a book by Michelle Mckinney Hammond- Secrets of an Irresistible Woman.…...
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How to Set Relationship Goals Before Marriage: A Guide Rooted in Faith and Wisdom

16 November 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Before meeting my husband, I had made a firm decision in my heart and mind that any man I entered into a relationship with would ultimately become my husband. Remarkably, that exact scenario unfolded in my life. It was a goal I had set for my relationships, and it came…...
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LITTLE THINGS TO DO FOR YOUR HUSBAND

2 November 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
I began discovering little things that I could incorporate into my daily routine to demonstrate my love and respect for my husband's leadership in our home. These seemingly insignificant acts held great significance for him, making him feel loved, valued, and appreciated....
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WHAT IS THE BEST SEX ADVICE YOUR PARENT GAVE YOU?

12 October 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
“A woman cannot be friends with a guy.”...
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THE BEST ADVICE I’VE EVER RECEIVED IN MARRIAGE- UNCLE EBO WHYTE

6 August 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
About two months to my wedding, I began to develop cold feet......
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DO MEN HAVE THE RIGHT TO CRITICIZE WHAT WOMEN WEAR? (KEKE PALMER’S CASE)

27 July 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Dear reader, let me ask you: In the times when women are at war with the structure of our society, and men, where traditional roles are being challenged, and where women are striving for gender equality in the family, marriage, and workplace, do you think that men have the right…...
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EVER THOUGHT OF REACHING OUT TO A ‘LOST FRIEND’?

29 June 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
With how the world is going now, “every man for himself and God for us all.”...
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