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 I’m Paulina Bonsu Donkoh, a Ghanaian lifestyle blogger, business woman, a wife, a proud mom, and a passionate storyteller navigating the beautiful chaos of life, love, and purpose. 
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Things I’ve Learned About Love Since Becoming a Wife

18 July 2025 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Becoming a wife opened my eyes to a deeper kind of love—one built on grace, service, and daily choices. In this post, I share the heartfelt lessons I’ve learned about love since marriage, all rooted in my walk with God....
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Men should also stand up for men’s empowerment. Don’t you think?

3 July 2024 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
This book discussion sparked some controversial topics like polygamy, rape, domestic abuse and women empowerment. The men amongst us supported the women empowerment initiative but were also concerned about the fact that the men were being left out…...
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6 Principles Every Woman Should Adopt | Becoming a Principles Woman

28 June 2024 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
My dear, I’m hoping you’re settled in for this. The other day I was going through the books sitting on my bookshelves, deciding which ones I’ve purposely ignored for some time were worth my attention now. Then I saw a book by Michelle Mckinney Hammond- Secrets of an Irresistible Woman.…...
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Navigating Your Twenties: Crucial Decisions Every Woman Must Make

26 June 2024 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Now, let me just say- the twenties are the most crucial stage in a person’s life because that’s the stage you have to make major decisions in your life that will drive the rest of your years on earth. You will have to make decisions like ‘Which career path is…...
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The 5 Ps of Bible Study by Priscilla Shirer: A Simple Guide to Studying God’s Word

30 November 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
If you want to hear God's voice, hear him give you directions for your life, grow spiritually in the Lord, have a divine relationship with God, communicate with the Holy Spirit, and dissect the word of God to derive meaning and gain understanding then these principles below are going help…...
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FIRST OUTREACH- WOMAN + ELEGANCE + GOD

21 November 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
My life took a difficult turn at the beginning of this year (January 2023). I did not understand what was going on, and I didn’t want to accept the new life I’d been medically ushered into. I turned to God in prayer for an answer to my “Oh why God?…...
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How to Set Relationship Goals Before Marriage: A Guide Rooted in Faith and Wisdom

16 November 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
Before meeting my husband, I had made a firm decision in my heart and mind that any man I entered into a relationship with would ultimately become my husband. Remarkably, that exact scenario unfolded in my life. It was a goal I had set for my relationships, and it came…...
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LITTLE THINGS TO DO FOR YOUR HUSBAND

2 November 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
I began discovering little things that I could incorporate into my daily routine to demonstrate my love and respect for my husband's leadership in our home. These seemingly insignificant acts held great significance for him, making him feel loved, valued, and appreciated....
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WOMAN, WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH YOUR TIME?

24 October 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
This transformative journey serves as a testimony to the power of managing one's time wisely. As women, we must recognize the fleeting nature of time and refrain from wasting it on endeavors that offer no positive value....
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WHAT IS THE BEST SEX ADVICE YOUR PARENT GAVE YOU?

12 October 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
“A woman cannot be friends with a guy.”...
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THE BEST ADVICE I’VE EVER RECEIVED IN MARRIAGE- UNCLE EBO WHYTE

6 August 2023 by Paulina Bonsu Donkoh
About two months to my wedding, I began to develop cold feet......
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